I’m grateful because…

tiger-498543_1920-2I am grateful for my health.
I am grateful that I am healthy.
I am grateful because I am healthy.

You may be one of those people who writes about gratitude every day. If you do, here’s a suggestion – add the word “because.”

After many years of writing my daily gratitude list, I got bored. I suspect that your gratitude list and mine are similar. Of course, we’re grateful for family and friends, our home, pets, health, job, etc. All boring expected expressions  of gratitude, blah, blah, blah. So I started adding “because” to give depth and meaning to my gratitude, to drill down to the reason why I’m grateful. For example:

  • Today I’m grateful for my husband because he’s purposely watching TV in the bedroom with the door closed so I can write in peace in the kitchen.
  •  I’m grateful for the beautiful weather today because I want to spruce up the planter in the front yard.
  • And, I’m grateful for my new neighbors because they’re friendly and so are their three big dogs.

My daily gratitude list is more defined because I’m stating why. Every day, I’m grateful for my husband because

10 minutes of “I love it when…”

love-957023_1920 (2)Today is Sunday. For me, a day of rest and retrospect. A day to re-fuel my inner strength to face the week ahead. It’s a popular thing to write a gratitude list every day as a way to center your spirit. But my gratitude list has become repetitive. Every second of every day, I’m grateful for my family, my husband, my friends, my health, home, brains, beauty, freedom. That list is carved in stone and I can refer to it every day. So now I write, “I love it when….”

  • I love it when my cat, Rebel, sleeps next to me.
  • I love it when the sky is so blue that it sears my eyeballs.
  • I love it when gas is only $2.01 per gallon.
  • I love it when I see my friends on Facebook.
  • I love it when my mom, sister, and friend Alicia spend time together.
  • I love it when my husband, CJ, makes sarcastic remarks that make me laugh.
  • I love it when CJ and I watch TV and eat ice cream together in bed.
  • I love it when I spend time preparing my calendar and work for the coming week.

I love it when I write for 10 minutes every day!