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#1. You get to spend 10 whole minutes uninterrupted by people. (This happens only if you have set that boundary.)
#2. You warm up your writing engine even if you just doodle.
#3. You realize this 10 minutes is all you have today but it is yours and, damn it, you’re going to take it!
#4. You can write whatever you want – a great piece of dialogue, a list, or gibberish – in just 10 minutes!
#4.5 – Sometimes, you will be impressed by the excellent writing that happens in just 10 minutes.

Remember when Julia forgot to the bring rolls for Thanksgiving dinner? My friends Rick and Alicia hosted dinner at their house for friends and neighbors without local families. Julia, a single friend who doesn’t cook, was assigned to bring rolls. But she forgot and acted as if it was no big deal. However, it was an effin’ big deal to our hostess Alicia! For about 15 minutes, Alicia was steaming mad alone in the kitchen. But then, her sarcastic slightly mean side took over. She quietly told every guest to ask for rolls during dinner. When they did, Alicia would look questioningly at Julia. “Why don’t you ask Julia?”
What about that one time we went to cousin Johnnie’s house for Thanksgiving? He and Evelyn and their two children were very sweet and quiet. We loved them but their idea of Thanksgiving dinner was very different from ours (we’re not very quiet.) Dinner was adequate but portions were small – one spoonful of peas, one slice of white meat, one slice of the one and only pie – apple. NO football games on TV or out in the yard. And, worse of all, no leftovers. We ate and rudely left ASAP so we could still catch the game. The next day, Mom cooked a turkey with stuffing and we pigged out on turkey/stuffing/cranberry sauce sandwiches slathered with Miracle Whip.
Remember, after dad abandoned us and we had no money for food because mom worked three jobs just to pay our rent, electricity and gas for the car. The AT&T Pioneers (voluteers) surprised us Thanksgiving morning with a turkey and everything we needed for Thanksgiving Dinner. They came again at Christmas and brought us food, clothes and toys. I was 14 years old, my twin sisters were two. I was embarrassed at first, didn’t know what to say except, “Thank you.” But, I felt good to seeing the the Pioneers so happy. I felt like I had given them a gift.
Above all, I remember we always had great Thanksgivings! Through bad times and good times, we cooked and laughed. We held hands around the table and said blessing. We ate and then ate some more. We talked, cleaned up, and sent people home with packets of leftovers. And, we were thankful to be together – rolls or no rolls.

You, me, we all have tales of disasters we’ve survived. Be it personal, family, across your country or even worldwide – we suffer through and keep going. Here’s a list of disasters I remember from my childhood until now – 2025. I watched them happen on television and read about them in newspapers, magazines, and ultimately on the Internet. These are not in chronological order. Writing this post made me realize that whatever our nation is currently going through – this too shall pass.
Feel free to add your disasters to the list.
COVID 19 Pandemic. Worldwide, 229 countries and territories reported 705,753,890 confirmed cases and 7,010,681 COVID 19 related deaths. In the United States, we had 104,538,730 confirmed cases and 1,130,662 deaths. Everyone in my immediate family was vaccinated. Ultimately, we all got mild cases of COVID 19 but no one was hospitalized or died.








NOTE: I am not a historian. Please understand the disasters listed here are ones that had an effect on me during my lifetime. I’m simply sharing my thoughts and feelings along with information I found on the Internet. Thank you!

“Drop by drop is the water pot filled.” –Buddha
My writing, since I retired, is a drop here and a drop there. There’s so much I want to write, I feel overwhelmed and stuck-in-the-mud. Waddling around aimlessly in this mudhole has become a bad habit.
During my career as a fundraising professional, I wrote for my job - newsletters, proposals, grants, strategic plans, annual reports, cases for support, press releases, and social media. Now that I'm newly retired, I have the freedom to write what I want, but how do I get unstuck from the mudhole?
So I searched Google for "habit," and found tons of information from people like Stephen R. Covey, Malcolm Gladwell, Twyla Tharp, Thich Nhat Hanh, Mark Twain, Oprah, James Clear, and more. They all have good ideas for building habits that can make life more productive. My takeaway from their advice helped me recognize my bad habits and create better habits.Here’s the bad habits I want to stop:
- Finding excuses to delay writing – i.e. – go to the mailbox, make guacamole, get caught up in TikTok or Pinterest, call my daughter. I can do these things later.
- Lack of focus when writing. I skip between two blogs, two Etsy stores, Linkdin, and my Journal.
- Sitting too long at one time at the computer.
- Not drinking enough water.
Last week I started practicing new, much better habits:
- Write from 9:00 AM to 11:00 AM, and 1:00 PM to 3:00 PM, Monday thru Friday.
- Keep a running list of everything and everywhere I want to write. Review it every day, prioritize, and make changes as needed.
- While writing, drink water, stand up and move every 30 minutes.
- Sit up straight. (I tend to hunch over.)
- When time is up, clean up my desk and get it ready for tomorrow. Be ready to start without wasting time looking for cords, chargers, folders or books I’ll need.
- Make time Saturday and/or Sunday to read fiction.
Britannica Dictionary’s definition of HABIT: 1. a usual way of behaving: 2. something a person does often in a regular and repeated way.
Changing my usual way of behaving and writing often in a regular and repeated way is helping me feel more focused and less stuck-in-the-mud. And, I’m making progress in my writing skills and stockpile.
Do you have any advice for changing habits? What are your successful writing habits? Thanks for sharing!

I don’t like the phrase “growing old.” There’s no “growing” as you get older (unless you count hairs in your nose and ears.) Actually, there’s a lot of shrinking – your lips, boobs, muscles, and spine for beginners. Add that to your shrinking bank account, friends still living, and eyesight.
Anyway…not to be totally negative about aging, I’m looking for another description to replace “growing.” Thesaurus.com lists these synonyms for growing:
burgeoning, developing, expanding, flourishing, spreading, thriving, viable, amplifying, animate, augmenting, budding, crescent, dilating, enlarging, fructifying, germinating, living, maturing, mushrooming, pullulating, sprouting, stretching, swelling, waxing
Some of these made me LOL! I particularly like “mushrooming” old.
Advice from a Mushroom
- Be down-to-earth
- Sprout new ideas
- Keep a low profile
- Know when to show up
- Stay well-rounded
- Start from the ground up
My 10 minutes is up. Hope you have a mushrooming kind of day!

I’m in my office, at my desk with laptop ready to write for 10-minutes. My watch timer is set. Ready, set, GO!
No writing thoughts are happening. Maybe I need a 2nd cup of coffee.
OK- back to my desk with coffee. My trip to the kitchen took about 20 minutes (I made toast with honey-butter spread) so I reset the timer to 10-minutes – Ready, set, GO!
Crickets.
Guess I could write about how much I’m enjoying this delicious, hot, aromatic coffee in my Grand Canyon souvenir mug. But, hold on, just saw the FedEx truck go by. I need to go look on the porch just in case the driver left a package.
False alarm – no package. I forgot to stop the timer. Should I reset it or just keep writing?
Wait, did CJ feed the feral yard cats this morning? I better ask him.
Morning sex is the best!
My 10-minutes is up.

Got a sty in my eye. Doctor prescribed hot compresses twice a day.
At first, sitting still for 10 minutes with my eyes held captive by the compress is annoying. But, the moist warmth on my face is actually relaxing. And because I can’t see my phone, computer, TV, laundry, weeds, dishes, I give in to the warmth and darkness. “Ok Google. Play ocean sounds.” Soon, thoughts leave my head and go swooshing towards the horizon where they dissipate leaving me sitting cross-legged on the sand at the edge of the waves with no thoughts at all.
I’m grateful for this temporary forced relaxation.

Tropical Storm Debby is right over our house in St. Marys, Georgia. We live about 30 minutes north of Jacksonville which is also covered by TS Debby. As the weather reporters are saying, “Debby is crawling across Florida and southeast Georgia,” so it’s going to rain today, tomorrow, and maybe Wednesday, and Thursday,
I feel sorry for people on Florida’s east coast because they got the most rain, flooding, wind and damage. However, I’m happy it’s raining here today and maybe the next few days because it gives me a good reason to not leave the house.
So, here I am writing on my blog for first time in a long time. However, I have good reasons (excuses) why I haven’t been writing on my blog:
I was working at a job I loved and was very successful at.
And then I retired.
My 93-year old mother was called to heaven.
We decided to sell our house in Fort Pierce, Florida, and move to St. Marys, Georgia to be closer to my children and grandchildren. That process started in December 2023 and ended (finally and successfully) in May 2024.
My last reason (excuse) – we’ve been unpacking boxes and setting up our new house since we moved in in May.
Now, I have to live up to my own expectations -no more excuses! Unless….
the need for speed

Monday through Friday, and sometimes Saturday and Sunday, I write for work. As a professional fundraiser, I write letters, proposals, reports, copy for websites and emails. I write for different audiences – the boss, current donors, prospective donors, Board of Directors and committee members, and staff. Mainly, I’m writing in expository and persuasive styles – and I love it!
For myself, I write in my personal journal most mornings for at least 10 minutes. Writing my gratitude, my to-do list, and my goals helps me feel confident I can handle whatever is happening in my daily life.
But, I feel the need to write more and share with you! So, I plan to “blog” a couple of times a week – for 10 minutes – and hope you read it and comment. Thank you!
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